Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Ponte Vedra : Evening Swim


We unpacked our bags just in time to pack our suitcases back up again for an end of summer beach trip. I really love going to the beach in May, but with house showings & end of school events our trip got pushed back into July. This was really a blessing in disguise as our family truly relaxed and exhaled for the first time in 4 months on this trip. Unplugging is a conscious decision and we tried our best on this trip to just enjoy family time...undistracted. Although, I love to joke that a beach trip with kids is a SAHM's work trip. It's a lot of work traveling with little ones.

Miller's passion at the beach is boogie boarding. Our Big Kahuna was given a run for his money on the giant waves in the Atlantic. They pounded him silly with crashing force. He always popped back up after somersaulting underneath the wave. Stop. my. heart.  I couldn't relax with his rough housing in the surf. The currents made him drift a little out of my comfort zone. I considered a long waist leash to keep him in the right depth of water. This one has no fear.

We've made it a new rule as a family to carve out late evening swims at the beach during "magic hour" at least one night. This is our absolute favorite time on the shore, but we often miss out rushing out to dinner after naps.
Miller's trunks needed to be rolled up and tied tight to prevent indecent exposure:) Those waves were unreal. They turned him upside down so much that we had to treat a minor chaffing problem on his legs from all the sand in his trunks. An A&D ointment salve solved the problem.

"Cinda-bella" never leaves her tight grasp these days. The Disney Princess indoctrination has already started with this girly.

Eliza Kate wants to follow Miller around and try out everything he does. At times, I feel like it has aged her beyond her years. I did let her try out surfing on dry sand.

See our tandum boogy-ers? She sat on Miller's back and surprised him!

Melt my heart. M&M bribery works for those sand dune shots. They magically cooperated together.

They do love eachother {at times}. What more could a mother want than to see her littles smooching in the sand?

We enjoyed every last ounce of sunlight, playing, running, chasing and....

dancing. At 2.4 this girly loves to twirl with her hands up in the air. I think we might have a little ballerina in training.
 
Looking forward to keeping our evening swim tradition alive. Oh how we made the most of our daylight on this fun night. Both littles slept soundly tucked in their beds.

Monday, July 30, 2012

late afternoons & rainbows


Before recapping our beach memories...I've been meaning to post an update on how the kids are adjusting to the move. We've all been curious to see if Miller would be depressed, but he's our little adaptable man. Since he takes after Landon, he welcomes transitions and new places. He's done just fine. I have been keeping him busy.

I will say that the hardest part of our move is missing our friends & weekly afternoon street play. Late afternoon {around 4 pm} after naps is the hardest part of my day right now. We're trying to fill that empty space with other activities, but we can't help but think about all the fun we had on Islandora until dinner time. Old fashioned street play is how we celebrated the after nap/before dinner chunk of the day. When all the daddy's rolled home from work, we hung up our hats for family time. Just another routine that needs reworking. It helps to have a pool that's a 2 minute walk from the back door complete with a water slide calling our names.

We do carry with us these sweet memories of our block and it makes us anxious for our new neighbors, connections and relationships. It's the people, not the actual house that we miss. I've determined we're community oriented... Needles to say, I've been canvasing neighborhoods to make sure I see playscapes and street play before we consider the street. Just one more wish on the checklist...ha! 

It's a desire, not a requirement. This cutey makes friends wherever we go. Just when I start getting sentimental & discouraged that we haven't found our next house yet, God painted a rainbow in the sky over our first house. A promise. We know he's got our journey in His hands. He's got this all under control in his perfect timing. Trusting him in this transitional season for our family. We've left our comfort zone. Change is hard.

Romans 8:28
 And we know that all that happens to us is working for our good if we love God and are fitting into His plans.

Saturday, July 21, 2012

trip to the ham'


I feel like our summer is divided into two halves...Before the big move & then after the move. We planned all our little trips towards the end of summer after all the hard work of packing was completed. It was exhausting. Once we got settled {into my parent's basement} for the time being...I surprised Miller with the news of a "two sleeps" little get away to Birmingham to see the Morrow boys. Take note, that besides sleeping our princess went shirtless and was just one of the boys for a couple of days..

Will and Logan's highly anticipated slip and slide came out while we were playing in the backyard. Their backyard has the perfect slope for sliding.Instead of getting bathing suited up, Eliza Kate slowly lost each article of clothing as the afternoon wore on. No need for her ruffled suit! She danced a little lighter in just her diaper..freedom!

At first, she only wanted to dance in the sprinklers at the bottom of the slide.

And, then the boys tripled up for a three man dash to the bottom toppling all over each other at the foot of the slide. Nothing like little boy giggles to get them all geared up for another round down the hill.

Of course little sister learns by example.... this dare devil of mine. It wasn't long before she took to the slippery slide down the hill. What a big time she was having! 

We spent lots of time in the water cooling off on this trip. It was fun to swim & eat lunch poolside. There's really no where else to be on a hot, humid day in the armpit of the south {as I like to reference Birmingham}.

Our trigger happy boys with their water guns....Triple trouble for sure. If only we had a tape recorded attached to a megaphone that repeated," Not in the face please. Aim for the belly."

Round 2 of slip and slide madness did not disappoint after naps. These boys had a lot of steam to burn off. I don't think the slip and slide will ever outlast its novelty in Miller's book.

Miller's perfecting his photography skills these days and snapped this one. Blurry, but proof that Terra and I also enjoyed our mommy weekend. Sharing in another season of life as friends. We've come a long way since our Samford days as roommates. Her friendship for life is such a blessing to me.
 
Another shirtless opportunity enjoying ice cream cones all together. This is the best way to save time & energy on stain fighting chocolate drips! We left with wonderful memories of our spend the night party. A big thank you to the Morrows for hosting our crew in sweet, home Alabama.

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

packing, hugs & goodbyes


Packing was not a desirable part of our move. As we started the tedious pack up process, Miller canvased the house from room to room asking what we would take with us. "Can we take my bed?"  "Do my toys get packed up?" He quickly figured out what Miss Carla & Mr. Jeff would need us to leave to make their new house work {like kitchen cabinets and the sink...ha!}.  We left behind his memories of Islandora too..we couldn't pack his neighborhood friends up in boxes to take with us.{sigh} It's the people and coziness of our block that we'll miss the most.

 We had many drop in packers over the summer to help us with the tedious bubble wrapping process and box assembling. Miller really got into paper cutting and assuming the role of master packer. Friends delivered boxes and extra bubble wrap from their recent moves. Such a blessing to our family & we loved the camaraderie too. I made it a goal not to let packing ruin our summer fun. Taking time to play as a family was a priority during all the madness.

We cleaned, donated, and threw away so much. At times, I felt like we were just one stack away from the TV show Hoarders knocking on our door.  The kids loved the freedom of open spaces in the rooms as we packed. Eliza Kate joyfully unpacked a couple boxes. It takes lots of patience to move with preschoolers.

Miller was at the perfect age to help.

He even role played the part of our professional mover with a loaded up dolly cart.

My man worked hard to get everything done that we needed to do. This was our first move together...tack on a couple of kids and we had so much stuff. He organized and took apart the beds before the movers pulled up our driveway. He was directing the movers while my neighbor helped me pack up our kitchen. Little by little our rooms were cleared.

Miller was just a little disappointed that he missed the truck while at water camp. His depression lifted when I pinky promised the truck experience on phase 2 of our move. As we went from room looking at our empty house, I remembered what it felt like when we moved in and planned out all our rooms. I got excited for the newlyweds taking over our home and I realized that 406 was no longer ours.

Kisses , hugs, and rowdy goodbyes before we drove down the block the last time. It's not goodbye for good, just see you later.

KuJo & Miss Katie where even on their nightly walk to wish us well on our way.

A couple of friends made their way down the street to say one last goodbye. Blessed to know that Miller is so loved. A sweet little time with our last few moments at our home. We waved a thousand waves and it tugged at my emotions with our final goodbyes.

 It's official! It's sold! God taught us patience to find just the right buyer after our first buyers backed out in April. We learned a few lessons in endurance, faith and resting in God's perfect timing.

 Excited about our new journey & praying for our new direction. We know our next home with leave us with new memories to carry with us.. We're hoping that we fall in love with our new house soon.  In the meantime, we're stalking neighborhoods and listings. It's taking patience for just the right fit for our family. Trying to step out of the search, so God can step in. We want to be just right where he wants us as a family.

Isaiah 30:18
18But God's not finished. He's waiting around to be gracious to you.
He's gathering strength to show mercy to you.
God takes the time to do everything right—everything.
Those who wait around for him are the lucky ones.

The Message






Saturday, July 14, 2012

our first home


Part of my heart will always be at our first home on Islandora Cove. I remember spending countless Saturdays when we weren't ironing out wedding details, searching for just the right nest for us to settle into after our late August wedding. I remember ruling out quite a few houses from our showings, losing a bidding war in another subdivision, and then finally landing on this perfect little starter on Islandora. It was ours.
Landon moved in first and put his bachelor stamp on the place. a lava lamp, UT ottoman, orange trash can...... and all.  Those college apartment accessories were quickly removed once I moved in . And, we put our mark on our first little place together. Many weekends were spent painting, maintaining the yard, and spending many hours at Home Depot. Fun little house projects like newlyweds like to do together....

I became a wife at this house. I remember brushing up on my novice cooking skills in our first kitchen with all our new gifts. It was an exciting season of life. I learned that you win some and lose some when feeding your man. My "husbands delight" casserole was a complete flop. But, I did  eventually win Landon over with my Chicken Enchilada crescents. 
I also was introduced to the title of mom inside these four walls. A first time mom...whew!

Two years later, we welcomed baby Miller into our little nest and set up his first bath right on the kitchen counter. If he wasn't bouncing in his jumping johnny while I cooked, he was found hanging on my legs in that kitchen begging me for more food...ha! A few years later, our family grew with the addition of Eliza Kate and she taught me that my love could be shared and multiplied with two kids.
Both babies practiced tummy time right there on the living room floor. They spent many hours lounging in the play gym. First crawling strides and wobbly steps all took place in the living room. As they grew into toddlers, they chased daddy round & round the kitchen/dining room loop. Gotta love open floor plans with that feature. Infectious giggles quickly filled the spaces of our once quiet first home. Yes, many milestones and memories all within our four walls.
Am I sentimental or what?
Our first piece of furniture purchase as a new couple. Delivery took 8 weeks and we anxiously anticipated it's delivery before Thanksgiving. I remember hosting small gatherings of friends in those early days. We loved entertaining with family in that room too. Our kitty Jackson's favorite spot was under the dining room chairs...a safe haven from rowdy kids.

Miller's big boy room {sortof got finished}...minus window treatments and final accessories. Juggling a new nursery, working part time while pregnant with # 2 & big boy room planning almost did me in. That was a crazy season in our home.
But, Miller loved everything about his truck room. He loved his own territory at Islandora.  He hosted his first friend to spend the night on his trundle bed. We loved to snuggle in to read bedside stories in this room. Tuck ins & making our boy snug as a bug in his bed were fond memories of this room. And, he read his first sight word book in his room....I remember late night peek ins on my boy only to find him peacefully snoozing away in the dim glow of his truck night light.

We said goodbye to his room with a little impromptu last photo on his bed. A proper documentation of goodbye was in order.

The nursery...this room tugged at my heart strings whenever I even thought about packing her room up. I remember rocking both babes in the glider, late night feedings in a silent house, first diaper changes, and gazing at sleeping babies cooing in the crib. There were lots of "cry it out" screams coming from that nursery too. Then, the sweet satisfaction that Baby Wise brought to our sleep trained babes. I don't know if I'll ever be able to let go of a nursery in our home. Since there's no baby waiting in the wings...who knows if I'll set up the crib in our future home..
 This was our baby girl's last night in her little nursery.
All cozy & snug in her bed. I could hardly stand to pack everything up in her baby room. I may be way too emotional, but in a way it's closing the door to her babyhood artificially too soon in my book. I had 9 more months of nursery still left with Miller at her age.

The master bedroom sold us on the purchase of this home. We loved the layout. Many Saturday morning snuggles with the kids happened in this room. I hate to admit it, but lots of jumping games happened on this bed too. Landon played a fun game { or three } of crocodile river raft chomper involving the kids' toes in this room. 
You could always tell what season of parenting and bible study we were in from the selection of scattered books on our night stands. My collection started out with What to Expect when You're Expecting to The Strong Willed Child by James Dobson.  Our room rarely looked so clean, so why not celebrate with a perfect picture?

We said our goodbyes to all the bedrooms with a family picture before all the furniture came down and was moved out. I wanted to capture a few moments together...one last Saturday high atop the bed to remind Miller and Eliza Kate of our days on Islandora in the future. We have fond memories as a family of four to carry with us.
 
And, one last jumping pillow fight to signal pack up time! Bittersweet days in our house.

Saturday, July 7, 2012

wrapping up the 4th


Popsicles with friends is a great way to wrap up the July 4th holiday. And, a perfectly acceptable lure to keep the kiddos stationary for a photo op. Our annual pop picture is too cute not to share. With the 4th on a Wednesday this year, this was an after party. It just meant that there were more days to celebrate America.

Miller found a "surf board" to paddle on in the pool. He still has anxiety jumping into the water if he's  not sure of the depth.

Little sister created a serving tray from the surf board. It's a swim up serving tray of sorts. I love how my all boy and all girl kiddos use the same pool float for a unique function. They really are wired so differently.

Thanks for inviting us to your festive celebration Kristen. It's a cookout that we always look forward to.
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